Dating a flake
I go on a first date and I can tell for sure that a guy is interested in me. The end result is the same: if he wanted to see you again, he’d have seen you again. And while you can complain (and many readers have), it doesn’t make a bit of a difference. The same scenario happened to me at least 5 times in the last few months. People come and go, and they usually don’t leave hand-written letters explaining their motives.You see, Tinder has a feature that allows you to unmatch (as you know). Now I’m guessing you’re no male model or super star DJ, so why should she pick you over them??
I went out on a date with a guy I met on okcupid on Saturday afternoon.
My sophomore year in college, a girl from my hometown, Carey, moved to campus.
She was a friend from high school, and immediately suggested meeting up and hanging out.
I get a lot of guys whining at me, saying “dude, I got a smoking hot girl on Tinder who was into me and when we planned to meet, she ditched me last minute with a lame excuse that she had to do something else”. you’re not standing out from the crowd, so you have no more value than the guy next to you”. Not because you’re gong to end up meeting a heifer lump, with a face like a pig. Now this may seem simple enough, but with Tinder this doesn’t wash well.
But because you’re investment in girls on there can swiftly come to an abrupt end if you allow her to be in control. Well you want to get her out on a date, so you can show her some of your fine ass moves. they always ask the girl if they want to go out for “drinks”. Girls on this app are hounded every day by horny guys wanting to hookup, they have had a least a dozen other men all asking the same question.